Harold Finch: Very Private Person. His openly unhappy expression at the funeral was the equivalent of quiet sobbing from almost anyone else.

What gets me, though, is the moment where he basically tells Shaw that yes, obviously they need to let Root out, but can't they freak out about it for a minute first? Because as cautious as he is, when he sees the need for action, he can usually be counted on to act decisively -- and yet here he was spinning his wheels.